Am I the first female comment? After having a short fight over exactly this a few hours ago this is feeling so close to home. I do feel like the person who is supposed to be my partner doesn't listen to a damn thing I have to say and can be largely dismissive when I try to talk about my feelings on the subject- and it does completely suck to feel like the your other half doesn't want the same connection as you. It is impossible to be perfect, I'm sure not. But what anyone can do is acknowledge these types of patterns and be MINDFUL so that you be more aware of these moments when they are happening. That's my two cents from the other side :)
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