This is so incredibley true! I am a people person, a social butterfly, and it's taken years to not put value in every opinion given to me. When I would express an idea or goal and it was shot down with someone's opinion, I would lay the entire idea to rest. I was trying to gain acceptance. Now, almost 34 years old, I have finally been able to truly say people's opinions no longer have a hold on what I am doing. I'll take the perspective, but ultimately I am confident in my own decisions, my goals, and my own skin. Great article, thanks for sharing!
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I'm so happy for you! I remember that time of needing other people's opinions - ick - but also the joy that came with trusting myself and believing in myself :) It's a good place to be. But also, for me, it is important that I surround myself with those who are interested in my success - that way not only do I get support from them but I am also able to support them on their journey.
I like what you said about taking their perspective. I think that is a good idea with any naysayer who offers a perspective that is deeper than "don't do it because it is stupid!" Someone once said that You are entitled to an opinion but if its not based on anything then it won't be given the same attention as those who do have fact-based opinions. (or something like that)
You need to seek validation from no-one. You still have very far to go. Once you completely stop caring what others think (and i mean still care about your family etc) then you can really get into yourself, and figure out truth.
Honestly, we're running out of time to discover truth. I'd suggest people take it a lot more seriously.
It is defintely true that I still have a ways to go in putting it into practice, and believing that I don't care instead of just saying the words and not feeling them. But, I am on the road and the farther I get, the more free I feel! The truth is so distant to many, and time is running out. Hopefully it can be reached before it's too late!