So lovely seeing you pop up again! I have a feeling I'm going to start getting to know people on here :-) Thank you so much for getting back to me with your thoughts..... And for highlighting the distinction between defining people by their wounds and recognising the wounds that potentially affect their behaviour... It's such an important difference.
However, you hit the nail on the head with self love... Something I've struggled with over the years and continue to work on every day, for sure. I guess that's all the balance comes down to... Making sure your own oxygen mask is on before helping anyone else (such a great analogy by the way, thank you for that! Will definitely be using it in future) :-)