Need advice for a friend
I was in a 14years relationship with my ex unfortunately we ended up separating because his father wasn't in support of the union and there were issues of him taking me for granted. Like literally he had my mumu button in his hand.
Fast forward to 2years later I am married with the best husband anyone could ask for. A man who provides everything I want for me just for me to be comfortable but I do not love him. I am still in love with my ex up to the point that he contacted me and we are now having an affair. He is also married now to the kind of girl his father wants him to be married to. Presently I am pregnant for my ex now I do not regret it. How do I face my husband the man who has given and shown me love in the best way one can ever be shown love. My ex and I planned to have this baby on purpose it was not a mistake. Insults are highly welcome.
Is this story real or fabricated? I'm asking because I don't understand how someone can be so foolish. If your ex really loved you in the first place, he would have fought for you and gotten married to you against his father's wish. He threw a whooping 14 years away and you still got pregnant for him, may sense fall on you. I would advise you go back to your ex, that is because your present husband doesn't deserve a woman like you. Shift abeg, so that his true love and soul mate will locate him.
It sounds like there really is no advice needed on this one because you have already made the decision that you wanted to make. You went back to your ex and are pregnant with his child even though you didn't want to be in the relationship in the first place. I would honestly advise against going back to your ex since you weren't happy before but you are going to do what you are going to do no matter what anyone online tells you. I think you know that what you are doing is wrong, technically, so if you plan on raising your ex husband's child with him as the father then you need to tell your current husband what is going on. Good luck with dealing with your ex's family because they definitely won't approve of this situation, I am almost certain of that one.