Is this story real or fabricated? I'm asking because I don't understand how someone can be so foolish. If your ex really loved you in the first place, he would have fought for you and gotten married to you against his father's wish. He threw a whooping 14 years away and you still got pregnant for him, may sense fall on you. I would advise you go back to your ex, that is because your present husband doesn't deserve a woman like you. Shift abeg, so that his true love and soul mate will locate him.