i have helped enough people to see on their faces the smile you talk about @intelliguy...and the gratitude as well...
...but i feel the need to place a question here...
....if I was in a difficult position...if i was getting through a hard time...would these guys be there for me??...not to support me financially ...but psychologically ...just to say...'hey i'm here with you' ...
...i think 9 out of 10 wouldn't !!!...
...so the smile and the gratitude comes when they are in need of help but not when they are in place to give....
... yes of course there decent people out there...but from my experience ,someone decent would never ask for help out of decency and self-respect
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You are half-right. But...
Wrong. Sometimes someone with decency and self-respect will ask, when someone near them is also suffering, like a wife, or a partner. -- At that point, when you aren't alone... and someone else is looking up to you... you do what you have to..
It is a challenge.. for an individual to stop the suffering of others near him, and throw pride to the wind.. when it affects other people. So what you suggest only works if there is only one person involved. Not two. :)