Happy weekend, gentleman, I'm commenting a little late today because I've had discrepancies with my home internet...
I tell you that when my husband plays deaf, but "yeahhhhhh", he is listening to my request to "HELP me" and he doesn't stop me, what do you think I do?, I apply it the same, but with the little things that he likes the most lol, and it works for me, more than rhetoric, I think revenge is sweet lol.
Virtual big hugs to you.