Well said. I also think it's important when we have genuinely wronged someone to actually ask for forgiveness. This is even more powerful and restorative than simply saying "I'm sorry." When we acknowledge what we have done and then ask, "Will you please forgive me?" it can make it much easier for the other person to let go of their bitterness. But seldom will people do this for us, which as you said means we must decide to forgive them anyway.
I heard someone say once that when we refuse to forgive, it's like drinking poison and expecting the other person to be harmed.
Great post!
Good point - I agree, asking for true forgiveness is much more powerfull than just saying you're sorry. It shows that you really care, and that you are concerned about the situation!
I like that analogy with the poison, great input!