Love the symbolic image of the white and black wolf looking like a yin and yang sign.
Your topic reminded me of Bruce Lee's quote “You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water my friend.”
Sometimes trying to resist and control life will only do you harm. Great food for thought on all the questions you asked at the end. Sometimes life is just a big mystery.