When People talk about the things, they want to improve in their life. I'm surprised by some responses.
- They want to draw better
- they want to get better at sports.
While specifics are good, People underestimate something important.
If you don't have the skills to become good at something, You cannot improve at anything.
I noticed this when I began new hobbies outside of drawing.
I assumed that because I was good at drawing, that was my skill, MY ability. What I was good at. I assumed that people were usually good at one thing. But being good at many things was "impossible."
Which makes some sense. There is limited time in the day.
Have you ever met those people though, That seem to have unlimited talents? They can cook, Draw, Play an instrument, Do the math. Etc.
The list of talents goes on forever!
Self Control
When Improving if you focus on personality improvements instead of very specific improvements. It makes it easier to improve on everything. Rather than just one thing.
Self-control can keep you going when you don't want to anymore.
Self-control can help you find new ways of doing things that you may have otherwise been blind to.
Having self-control and discipline trumps talent when it comes to achievement.
We all know those people who have this "natural" ability to do things. But the reality is, Many of us arent' like that.
If you look at my early drawings in grade school. I was no better than anyone else. But I started getting into drawing at 12 years old. I disciplined myself. I forced myself to draw on those days where it was hard for me to do so.
Self Discipline is a practice, Something you can learn even at a young age.
Focus On Consistency.
Many people can try something for a day, Or even a week. But in the end, they fail because of the lack of consistency. This is why so many people fail their weight loss New Years Resolutions. Because they start off strong, Often losing a few pounds. But March rolls around, and they have already given up. Consistency is hard, ANd it requires discipline.
Delayed Gratification
Not only do people struggle with consistency, and disciplined. But many goals we have in life, Require some form of delayed gratification. Many of us are out of practice with this, Because life is getting more and more convenient and easy.
Back in the day, If you wanted to see a new movie, You'd have to get into your car, drive the nearest Blockbuster and pay 3-4 to rent a movie.
Now you can easily get it with Netflix, Hulu, Or even Redbox.
Instead of waiting weeks for shipping, We can now get free 2-Day shipping with Amazon prime. While stuff like this, really enhances our lives. It makes us harder to wait for the more important stuff.
Like the job promotion, Retirement.
These things require self-discipline, Consistency, and Delayed Gratification.
With retirement, You are saving money that you could spend NOW. For later on. You have to have the discipline to save that money. And you have to do it on a consistent basis for best results.
Conclusion
Great, You want to get better at Soccer, Talking to people or Cycling.
But instead of focusing on that specifically try and exercise different qualities in every aspect of your life. That way any improvement will be that much easier for you.
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yes yes yes! I agree. When people tell me that they can't draw, and I have this "natural" ability, I tell them, I've just put in more time and effort to get better at it, and it's the truth! I started drawing when I was 4 and I just never stopped. :) Great article, keeping me pumped to keep going. thanks for that.
I used to train artists (probably 200 or more) and I can promise some of the best started out as some of the worst. I taught confidence and attitude not art istelf. That's came from within of each once they started. Determination and belief are the most important skills... accompanied by practice.
"Have you ever met those people though, That seem to have unlimited talents?"
Yes I have, he was kinda cocky, too xD Still a nice guy nonetheless ^^
"You can always learn something new."
LOL! I know people like that.
nice
Thanks
sir its no nice, its look so very beautiful,great photography capture,amazing photography,nice post
@kaylinart, I agree with the content of you article, especially the following line:
But we live in a culture that tells me that they are good at something when in fact that they are not. We have started to celebrate mediocrity instead of excellence. We foster a me-mentality, instead of working hard.
I agree with what you said, but I am afraid that our culture will not listen to this important message.
I agree with that completely! we should change our priorities.
Oh thanks for reminding me and taking out some pressure!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THANKS :-)
i like the way you think and explain your thoughts,
Thank you <3
Thank you <3
Consistency is the key, thank you!
Nice photo.
I like your post..
Is a great advise. In my case I just try to be better on things related to my work, but there are many things that I just want to try them, to make something different, maybe just to be out of the box for a while. Thank you for your post, it's makes me think more about it. I'm following you now
cute write up upvvoted and resteem by me
Thank you so much <3
I agree with you personality improvement is necessary if you must improve in some other areas. Followed and upvoted you.
Thank you :)
Love reading your wisdom!
whT a nice piture,,,,,,,love it
Never ever give up in life and try to learn new skills because Learning is continuous process.
Set your goals & massive actions = Success !
Nice Post & upvote !
Many of us are flighty and don't have a long attention span. We move quickly from one interest to another, never staying long enough to gain the proper proficiency. I have a mind like that and it takes a lot of self-discipline to stay on track. As I got older I have definitely made some changes to my life but is wasn't an easy road to walk.
To do otherwise would be like a weightlifter only working on one arm. He or she would look pretty funny.
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You're quite right-- a LOT of things can be learned, up to a point. For example (of all things) I had zip aptitude for playing golf as a kid and teen, even though we lived next to a golf course. But through determination, I made my way to very near "pro" level.
That said, I do believe a lot of people have an "X factor" that separates brilliance from "really good." It's part passion, part vision, part "eye" and part something else... that can't be "taught." But it's probably only truly relevant if you're trying to win Olympic Gold at something....
good post
No human can be good at everything and that's why we work on things that we are weak on or thingns we don't really know how to do and the way we progress helps us to get satisfaction and also helps us have better skills
Wow! beautiful photo,it's really amazing.
@kaylinart Great day I value all the info and labor thank you :) Followed.
I definitely agree. Being able to better oneself, self-motivating, consistently working at bettering your life in general while working at your hobbies as well will take you a lot further and you will feel much more rewarded when you get better which also takes time.
Some lovely photos of you as well. :)
One of my greatest life accomplishments is making my bed. I lived alone. Didn't have guests over and couldn't see a good reason to make my bed. I decided to do it anyway. A first it was hard to get started. Then I would skip many days. I decided to dedicate myself further and with practice developed disipline. I tried to be as consistent as possible and didn't get down on myself when I missed a day. Eventually consistency and disipline payed off. I have been making my bed every day for the last 5 years. I don't even have to think about it. It's like a reflex
I love your post. You are spot on
I am guilty of not being consistent, so many things eventually get procrastinated. Maybe I try to do too much at once, self control comes in here.
And by the way the lady is very beautiful. Is that you?
Professionals dont believe their the best. There is always someone bigger, someone stronger, someone faster, someone BETTER out there than you. No matter how good you get. Some talent is concealed from the world.
Very good post. Up-Voted. I try everything ... I am a terrible cook but I will keep on trying.
your posting is good
I like it @kaylinart
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My wife is one of those people who can just do anything. One year at Thanksgiving she was busy erecting the frame for a new two-story barn she was building in between cooking the turkey. "Go out and turn on the air compressor for the nail gun, will you? I want to get the walls raised while we have the family here for muscle power."
At least I'm good with tech support and washing the dishes. And sheet-rock. I can hang a bit of sheet-rock.
good post
My opinion is no matter what do you want to improve, enjoy the moment and the practice, don't focus on the result, keep it in mind (it's important) and do other things that will eventually make a better version of yourself and this is a much better outcome for you and the ones who love you.
I forgot to mention something about the model, what a beauty, i like her. Her eyes express calm, peace of mind. Beautiful.
Wow !!! The girl is a very beautiful,,,,,,,,,
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Lovely photos
Nice view!!!
Pretty nicely explained everything with short and simple way :) i will take care of this :)
Love this! great advice and words to take in. Everyones diffrent and beautiful in there own ways!! EVERYONE