I suggest replacing "feminism" (both the term and the philosophy), as well as all the other social-justicey -isms with "individualism".
There are no women's rights. There are no racial rights. There are no gay rights. There are no religious rights. Rights are not for groups. Rights are for individuals.
I agree that's the ideal, but we're not there yet. Relevant Comic
And yet, many feminists are completely collectivist in their outlook.
Lots of women, lots of feminists, lots of opinions. Bottom line is we're not our stereotype, and the term feminism has a place in discussing issues specifically relating to women in the workplace, especially in the tech industry.
No true Scotsman, feminism is based on Marxist principles and promotes collective class action for the benefit of only that class. If you protect the rights of every individual you protect the rights of every group, every class and every community