I had to take some time away from family for a while. I told each of them what I was upset about and I cut off all interaction for months. After not having communication with them for months I realized I was holding a grudge.
My wife would always tell me "Frank, you are going to regret not talking to your family if something would happen to them".I finally started going around them in limited bunches. Things have really changed! I would say the abscense really helped with that.
I always love your sincere answers Frank. This one hit home for me. There needs to be introspection on our part as well in order for a fair resolution to occur.