One of the benefits of being a jerk is I don't get my feelings hurt hardly ever. I appreciate blunt and direct people who get to the point.
That was actually going to be one of my questions. If you can take what you dish out, I think that just makes you efficient. However, if you can't take what you dish out, then you're a jerk.
However, if you wanna have friends, then they'll all need to be like you. And since they're not, you have a decision to make:
- Have very few friends, but have really good ones who get me
- Have more friends, and good experiences with lots of people, but not all of them get me
I think both are great options.