I absolutely agree with you. I married young and had children young. I'm enjoying having grown children! But there is nothing in the world like pressure from your parents (now grandparents) and the pressure of a society that (at that time) expected us to grow up and meet our responsibilities as parents. Today, it feels like the grandparents just keep providing for their children and raise the grandchildren, too.
At any point. I totally agree the lack of training our young people into mature adults is the issue.
Don't get me started on the grandparents thing?!!! 😁
LoL there's definitely the good the bad and the ugly