Ahhh...this answers my question on another post of yours. I was with a person like this for 7 years. Also a musician and dancer...go figure. Now I'm 6 years out and reading this brought me right back to that anxious dread I used to always carry. When I was finally done I left him my house, most of my things, and he continued to steal money from me for a year and a half. But there is nothing more valuable than my freedom. I would have paid any amount just to get out. Money is just money. You will make more. When things get desperate you get creative. Give yourself peace of mind and everything else will fall in to place.
I hope you have a peaceful night! Water...weed...chocolate...and happy thoughts your way!
Thanks. I appreciate the good wishes, and you sharing your own story. I have a list of top four priorities in my life that need to be taken care of before anything else. One of those priorities just got done. I'm working on another. Getting a divorce will come next, and then I will tackle Priority 4.
He knows I want a divorce. He's not even opposed....most of the time (it depends on which mood you catch him in). His big thing is he wants me to give him a lot of money to go away....on the other hand, I've already talked to a lawyer and know I don't have to. So, we'll see how amicable we can make it. Fingers crossed on that one. He's too unpredictable to know how he'll be when we actually do it.
I just had some chocolate right before reading your post. You must be a mind reader! :)