Thanks. I appreciate the good wishes, and you sharing your own story. I have a list of top four priorities in my life that need to be taken care of before anything else. One of those priorities just got done. I'm working on another. Getting a divorce will come next, and then I will tackle Priority 4.
He knows I want a divorce. He's not even opposed....most of the time (it depends on which mood you catch him in). His big thing is he wants me to give him a lot of money to go away....on the other hand, I've already talked to a lawyer and know I don't have to. So, we'll see how amicable we can make it. Fingers crossed on that one. He's too unpredictable to know how he'll be when we actually do it.
I just had some chocolate right before reading your post. You must be a mind reader! :)