This is exactly how my hubby cooks it. He is a very enthusiastic cook, so we have every spice that you can think of anyway. No need for us to go and buy all that stuff.
I have to disagree with you getting takeout, even though it is easier. Keep on trying, you will get better, and sooner or later you won't want the shop bought stuff!
My husband also adds paneer, a type of cheese that he also makes from scratch. Look up a recipe and try it. Paneer takes up the flavour of anything it is cooked with (I am talking about any kind of curry).
Happy cooking!