I hate being a woman. It makes me feel really miserable and in the depths of despair mostly for the reason that woman are not treated fairly in my wits. Woman must prove themselves 10 times harder compared to men that they are not some type of ****. It is truly as if women are not first-classed but second. Women are taken advantaged of and been viewed as some type of "sex toy". A woman is also alleged to dress and behave in a definite way like wear make-up as well as essentially just look good. It is like we have to be into well what culture would call "woman stuff", I truly hate it for the reason that I am not really into woman stuff. It makes me miserable that for the reason that somebody is a definite gender (particularly woman) people robotically think they are into "girl's stuff". To me it is not the right way of thoughts and should not see a woman as a woman but as an individual. I find that I am unsuccessful to be female and I do not understand why anybody would desire to be female for the reason that I absolutely do not. It is as if woman are not taken seriously when they're interested in something that society thinks that woman shouldn't be interested in. I hate the fact that most women have to do everything in the house, if that happened to me, I would be really depressed, seriously. So yeah, being a woman is depressive. I just hate everything about being female.
My health, I am blessed with a wife and 5 daughters. While I do have one son in law and another coming next month, i do not see the frustration that you describe with my ladies. Ok I have the emotional IQ of a flea. Perhaps they are frustrated but can not open up to Daddy or Sweetheart. Sorry to always be so positive and uplifting with rose colored glasses. Glad you can share your frustrations and I hope the Steemit community can be a source of refuge and support for your life's journey.
Thank you @traderdad. Hope so.
In our country, the most successfull families are families where husbands listens to their wifes. it doesn't matter if a wife is staying home and tacing care of children or she is breadwinner, as long the woman is smart one that family has everything :)
cheer up :)
Israel?
which country? Philippines?
Serbia :)
I've Upvoted for sure. happy to meet you in this big family.
looking forward to your next post.
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Both men and women have their respective problems,cultural programming from the media makes most women when they were girls believe it's a gender thing whilst most men as boys are indoctrinated into believing they face no problems as men.
A responsible and functional society does not function on sex and race, but instead through the talents and abilities of all present to face challenge to the community. If it takes 100 years to enslave a culture, it takes just as long to unwind this foul on the human spirit. Thankfully we evolve toward the apex of truth, where race and sexual orientation will be where they belong, not as criteria to be a respected member of the community. :) Blessings to you, embrace this ride through life as you are, and do not judge it based on the trolls and demons whom hypocritically make the rules. Their days are soon to be over and this hell will be extinguished through our UNITED efforts.
nice post and upvoted
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Women make the world turn! female human's are very special to me, and
the view-point you have is unfortunate, I understand.
Many of the women
across the world are put into terrible situations,
I think it's mostly because of upbringing of people or
fear, fear that women could run and do everything better^^
Take care and I hope future events in your life bring great benefits and joy!
Your friend and follower @larutanton
I love it when i get positive comments. Thank you.
I don't think beautiful would be in our vocabulary if it wasn't for the female
form^^ Thanks for the reply and your hair in the picture is gorgeous^^later:)
Jay - For once, I do not agree with you. A smart and articulate person like you should not have to struggle to prove yourself just because you are a woman.
I have always thought of women as equals or even superior - I know for sure, from observing many colleagues that women are far better multi-taskers and can handle stress better than me. Upvoted for sharing your frank feelings.
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yeah sure..I agree with you when you say "I have always thought of women as equals or even superior" maybe you are one in a million..
Lol. I dont know if I am one in a million or not but I always speak from my own experience - so I know it is the truth as I see it. Have a great day.
Read this article earlier, your post made me think of it:
http://www.rebellesociety.com/2017/06/19/danielledulsky-primal/
Thanks
It is really sad to read that you feel this way. I know I have tried to run away from the idea of being a female myself when I was younger as I only heard negative comments about women growing up, but at one point I understood that this fight was futile. I couldn't be this non-emotional purely logical creature no matter how hard I tried and then I gave up trying to become something I'm not and that was truly liberating. I remember I used to shun everything that was even remotely feminine and avoided colour pink like it was a plague. :D I find it funny now that I think about it, because I have finally embraced also the feminine aspect of me and I'm actually truly enjoying being the full version of me - all silly faults and all. I hope you can find a way to soothe this discomfort you feel, maybe one step at a time, as that would surely be a time consuming process. If you'd like I can share my experience more in depth of how I found my way back to being content with myself being a woman and maybe some ideas or tips could help you. :)
Hello, I truly understand your post as I agree on many points : there is a big discrimination against woman in our world. And that make the Life much harder for us... But in the same time, if you meet these woman who are not really into What some people call "girl stuff" you can See very strong and beautiful people who have strong personnality !
I believe woman have a lot of power, and are a lot stronger than man on many points but we just Forget it behind make up and stupidity.