Today is a very sad day, I don't know how all of this happened but it leaves me and a lot of others shattered.
Exactly 6 months back on 08th August, I was conducting one of my Crystal Healing workshop and I receive a phone call, I never take a call during my sessions so as usual I did not answer the call, the calls would just not stop, so finally I had to answer and there I get to know one of my very close friend had passed away. I did not understand how to react as this was something so unbelievable. I could not believe what I had heard and I just didn't know what to do. I kept down the phone and I started back with the session with a lot of fight in my mind and within 5 minutes I had to end the program. I was saying to myself no this is wrong, how can this happen, how can a person so young and full of life just come to an end within a blink of an eye.
Me and my son we immediately rushed to the hospital, and there I see my friend 34 years old lying down motionless, no breadth in front of us, I felt the whole world was falling apart, there was his family, his young wife only 28 years and 5 months pregnant. I did not know what to tell her and how to give comfort to all of them.
She kept on asking me, why did this have to happen and I absolutely had no words for her or anyone. This was the first time in my life when a death hit me so hard, so so very hard that till date I am not able to get that image out of my sight. I was absolutely feeling so helpless and out of control. When the elders in my family passed away I was still ok, because I knew they had lived their life and they had their time up, but this one, how could something like this happen.
The first 2 months were extremely difficult. Even after finishing all the rituals, I was hoping that he comes alive suddenly out of no where. Some miracle would happen and my friend Jehan will come back to all of us.
He was just 34, so full of life, an excellent Chef. His Cheese cake was one of the most yummy one I ever had and almost every weekend it was one of our homes where all of us used to meet up for drinks and dinner and every time there was something special made by him for us.
On that fateful day he was travelling home from work in a cab, the distance between his workplace and home only of 15 minutes, and it all happened in that time, he collapsed in the cab and within just a couple of minutes left all of us. A loss that will never be replaced.
His wife delivered a baby girl in Dec and still trying to cope up with the loss. I do not have words to console her pain. I am only hoping that time will heal all wounds which seems so difficult as of now. His parents are 70+ everyday living with this trauma.
The day this happened, we were planning to meet up in a day or two, I had landed in the city just a couple of days back and I was feeling little lazy to meet them up and I pushed our plan to meet over the weekend, not knowing that this weekend will never come, and things will never be the same again :-(
Yesterday such a cute thing happened, My friend's baby was in my lap sleeping, who is now one and half month old. I was talking to her "your father has worried me a lot, wait and watch I am gonna worry you now", she was asleep and she suddenly opened her eyes giving me a grin, that was the cutest thing I experienced, and for a moment I felt my friend is around listening to us.
We had a Prayer ceremony for him today and we still feel the same sadness as on day 1, everyone's eyes are wet, We are all hoping for a miracle to happen.
With all of this I only keep on thinking, there is nothing certain in life, you never know what happens the next moment. We keep on burying ourselves in such irrelevant things. We keep thinking about future in the bargain of forgetting to live the present. It is good to plan for future, but it makes no sense to live in future.
Life is happening at this very moment, if you miss this now moment you are going to miss a very precious moment, you never know what the next moment has in store for you.
Express your heart's desires out to people you want to. Let your loved ones know in the now moment how much you love them, you never know when it can get too late.
Today also I want to sit and cry and cry and cry for my friend, I wish I could give him that one hug or can spend some last few joyful moments but they will never happen. This emptiness will always stay with us. This day will always bring a lot of pain to us. Our group gatherings will never be the same again. The void of our dear friend will always be there.
With Love and Angels Blessings 💖💖👼🏻👼🏻🧚♀
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Really sorry .. this is life
God will not oppress anyone, and all have a chance
Thank you for sharing your experience with us
It is really very sad when we lose friends we love
I wish you will be happy soon :)
happy lover
LO QUE PUEDO DECIRLE ES VIVAN EL MOMENTO COMO SI FUERA EL ULTIMO DIA
We are so helpless when our loved ones leave us forever. There is nothing we can do. We are really helpless then.
Yes, we shouldn't live in the future. If we focus too much only in the future, we will miss the present moment. Enjoy the present and express your feelings before it's too late!
So sorry for your loss of someone who was still so young. It can make no sense when you're going through the grief of it. Eventually you will be able to feel his presence around you. And while you may not ever know why it had to happen, you will be stronger and wiser for the experience. Keep the faith as you grieve moment by moment. Sending you and his wife healing and love.
During the stay on this earth for last 24 years,I have seen a lot of demises..A number of my friends have died owing to many reasons,the main being motorbike accidents..All those incidents made me worry but ironically I had never cried..The only one lose that sunk me in tears was of my younger sibling..I was just 8 and he was a 2 year old.I can never forget the attachment I had with him!
We are entitled to die..It should happen..But the scars the died ones leave is unmatchable!
TE DIGO UNA COSA LA MUERTE NO EXISTE , SIMPLEMENTE SEGUIMOS EVOLUCIONANDO LO QUE PERDEMOS ES NUESTRO CUERPO FISICO ESO TODO , PERO NOSOTRO SEGUIMOS
A VECES ES TRISTE VER A OTRO QUE MUERAN , MUY TRISTE Y AUN MAS SIN SON SON NUESTRO SERES QUERIDO , PERO A LA FINAL NOSOTROS TAMBIEN MORIMOS . ALGUN DIA NOS TOCA ENTONCE PORQUE LLORAMOS.
unfortunately, we do not choose the moment of our pass away, or the care of our loved ones. That's life. And you are right, we must appreciate every moment that passes here and now. It's always our chance to do, to be, to feel.
EN REALIDAD NO SE DE DONDE PROVIENE LA PALABRA MUERTE , YO PENSARIA EVOLUCION DE ENERGIA , NOSOTRO CONTINUAMOS
It is really very sad when we lose friends we love
But this is the year of life
I wish you patience, my friend
This is definitely an unexpressive loss for your friend's kid and wife. It is really sad to see something like this but in one way it will teach a big lesson for our life that we are also not permanent in this world. It will let us explore the purpose of our life. For me the same feeling and realization started when my uncle passed away in a young age. I personally have also had near death experiences and that has always given me a thought that this life that I possess right now is a gift and that too for a good cause. I lead my life with that thought always in my mind.
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your close friend, and at such a young age with a baby due it's so sad for the mother and child left behind. I'm getting to the age now where death is unfortunately becoming a regular challenge to face, both my grandmothers are passed for some years, my partners father passed away just before Christmas and her sister who was only in her 30's was taken by cancer just a week and a half ago. You are so right, life is so short and precious we need to make the most of the people we love now - because nobody can know what tomorrow brings.
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Intense experience, surely. Thanks for sharing this post! :)
The magic of Unknowingness gives us the chance to cultivate the relationship with our Intuition. If we follow our Heartful Intuition we defy our Ego, yet as soon as we let go of the doubts we'll experience the Trust. So in a way, our Knowingness increases as we accept our Unknowingness :)
@nainaztengra - I’m truly sorry for your loss and hope you and the family have the strength to cope with it. May his soul rest in eternal peace
Your story is so heart touching. I don’t want to lose our dearest person. But that’s the real fact . I feel really sorry for you. You said, we should feel every precious moment of our life. Otherwise if we missed that moment we will miss it forever. The baby girl of your friend a very good wishes for her. God bless her. Thanks for sharing the heart touching story.
I think it's much more interesting to live not knowing than to have answers which might be wrong. I have approximate answers and possible beliefs and different degrees of uncertainty about different things, but I am not absolutely sure of anything and there are many things I don't know anything about, such as whether it means anything to ask why we're here. @nainaztengra
That's sad indeed. :(
The fact that we cannot take anything materialistic to our graves is a harsh reminder of the futility of worldly goals.
Thank you so much for sharing your painful time and glimmer of calmness that your friend was with you. Big hugs!!
Am really sorry for your loss. Life is surely unpredictable....
God give peace and rest his soul
LA PAZ LA GENERA TU.
so sad, sometimes things happen and we keep wondering why.
take heart @nainaztengra
What happens in our next life all do not know we can only strive to remain the best
LO QUE SI SE ES QUE NUESTRA VIDA ES A CONSECUENCIA DE LA PASADA Y LA QUE VIENE ES PRODUCTO DE ESTA.
@nainaztengra very sad story God give peace and rest his soul
Hope our thoughts and prayers will support you at this hard time.
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A touching and heartfelt story about your dear friend’s passing. I hope writing out your feelings will help heal your sadness.
Prayers sent...sorry for your loss
Sorry to hear about your friend! Just remember the good times!!
PERFECTO EXCELENTE
Had the human bodies been eternal as our souls and sins . World would have been a scary place to live. Cheers to movement of souls and moving energy with them.
I feel so bad for you, I can't even imagine the pain you must be going through, I followed and upvoted I hope things get better as time goes by,may he rest in peace.
I'm sorry for your loss. So tragic :(
My heart goes out to you and the family.
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