Almost all of us, say they will not be like their parents,
In the end, almost all of us, very similar to our parents.
In order to decide what shapes relationships with parents at an older age, it is possible to examine childhood by three measures:
The degree of authority - to what extent there were laws, punishments, and prohibitions, the degree of communication - to what extent was openness with parents compared to the need to hide.
The level of independence - to what extent individual and separate opinions were possible, and action according to personal belief. In childhood, the main observation of a parent-child relationship is attachment patterns, that is, if the child feels secure and also responds to his emotional and concrete needs.
In general, as long as the parent manages to do these things and understand things from the child's point of view and to be flexible where necessary, everything is conducted in a proper developmental path.
Of course, one must also consider the family connection, the attitudes that the family members develop and the balance between the roles, healthy and normative.
After you grew up in your parents' home and saw how they are
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Their situation, their decision that you do not want such a life.