I'm saying that I have free will and with that I can choose to let God have control over my life. doesn't mean he does though, it's just me saying to myself that whatever happens is God's plan for me and that i'm going to trust that and do what he asks of me.
so what i'm saying is that with prayer and reading the bible if I really feel like God wants me to do something, or like spur of the moment I feel compelled to talk to some one about Jesus, and then I do that thing, then I'm choosing with my free will to do what I feel like God wants me to do.
In the Christian world free will and stuff bordering on that is a debate at times.
it can be hard to explain, and I think that to someone nonreligious it can make me seem very blind, so I hope it doesn't come across like that.
great question, because someone that is a terrorist might say the same thing as what I had said in my earlier comment, but from here things get much deeper to explain. :)