I loved everything what you shared. I'm also an empath. I always feel the need to help the ones closest to me when they have a problem upon them. However they're not always looking for answers from me.
I think humans should always be on a permanent mission for self improvement and development. Now that's not to say that one wouldn't be happy with themselves. I'm always looking for ways to better myself that'll benefit my future. I'm consistently working on self-love because it's not a habit for me and even habits diminish over time of being inactive. With self improvement leads to wanting to learn. I love that you're always wanting to help people. If you haven't already, maybe looking into techniques of interpersonal communication. There are many ways to say "no" in my opinion while still remaining empathetic.
I think reading or feeling peoples vibes is important when trying to analyze how you're going to respond to them. I used to be a teller at a bank and we were always supposed to engage in conversation with the customer. Only with some I could do this because some people would give off a negative vibe, or some others were just in a rush. I could tell they didn't come in the branch to have a conversation with me.
Us humans should never be content with who we are and get comfortable. Of course we must love ourselves for who we are, but that means we should be providing ourselves with the greatest opportunities in life. Life is amazing and so are you! Have a good one :)
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