I think for young men its confusing, what is the male role model now? What rights of passage do they follow to assume the mantle of a man?
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I think for young men its confusing, what is the male role model now? What rights of passage do they follow to assume the mantle of a man?
You're right. It's super confusing. At the beginning a man must show no vulnerability. Vulnerability is mocked at school, and kids are bullied into conformity. Then when we leave school and look for work and a mate, it turns out women value vulnerability and we have to spend years undoing what the popular kids smashed us into submission with. It's messed up!