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RE: May I “Mansplain” Something for a Minute, Please?

in #life7 years ago (edited)

You continue to either misunderstand or misrepresent me completely. Rather than address my specific contentions, you slay straw men. Please read my stuff again and then let me know if you really think that I’m advocating in any way for women to be beaten and raped into submission.

With respect, I suggest that you’ve not yet reclaimed your sexuality at all. Your entire worldview (if not your entire life) is still controlled by these few limited traumatic experiences from your past, these demons. Your politics is ruled by them. Your attitude is ruled by them. Your seething disdain and distrust of men results from them. Even your handle here reeks of false bravado and little more. If you had truly reclaimed your sexuality, you would’t fear being vulnerable (IMHO, and yes I’m entitled to have one, even with balls). You wouldn’t fear exploiting it. No, you’ve not reclaimed it at all. Men (or at least these demons of men) still own you. (Believe it or not, I say all of these things to you with total sincerity and love. I’ve got nothing but love for you, and I hope you heal someday).

My wife has never been assaulted. My daughter has never been assaulted. I don’t believe my sister has ever been assaulted, but I suppose it’s a matter of how you define assault (as an actual act of harmful violence or a harmless physical touch). My Mom may have had some issues with a family member in childhood (I’ve heard hints of that), but they don’t seem to have scarred her like they have you.

I would apologize for your experience at the age of 15, except I wasn’t responsible for it, and neither was my gender as a whole. That you can’t see that suggests that you’ve not reclaimed your life to the extent you think you have.

It’s tragic that these few experiences have tainted your worldview so that you now perceive your sexual attractiveness as a curse and men as threats (again, yet more evidence that you’ve not actually reclaimed it). I’m truly sorry for that. I can think of few things more tragic, actually.

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I would apologize for your experience at the age of 15, except I wasn’t responsible for it, and neither was my gender as a whole.

Yes, you were. It's exactly that toxic self-indulgent "evolution said I deserve everything" attitude that turned me into a rape victim and you into a woman-hater in denial.

Also, you don't shit about me, or my sexuality, so between your threats and assumptions, you've made it quite clear you're not a man willing to listen to the opinions of anyone without a penis.

And the most tragic part of all is you honestly see yourself as enlightened when your words clearly show you're no more than a misogynist perfect shaped into an example of a gender supremacist.

I am done. You're not here to listen anyway, just make ridiculous excuses for sexual violence and throw threats at any female that disagrees.