Many mothers do not choose a method of punishment that can punish their children, Some of them are screaming,and Some of them use the method of beatings, and some of them use the method of insulation.
If you are one of these, stop immediately, the way you do to punish your child, It will affect his personality negatively, Just follow the following methods, We offer you, According to behavioral education experts, To help you to punish your child without causing him psychological contract:
First :
I link his actions with the punishment directed at him,Before your child behaves, it bothers you, He knew the punishment that he would receive, And thus you associate punishment with his actions, For example: say to him: If not finished Your Schoolwork ,We will not have to go out for a walk, If you go out to the park, Tell him: If you leave this place, which you have set for him, we will leave the park, Your child will be committed to your word; he knows the result of his non-compliance.
Second:
Pull out the privileges: This punishment has a great positive impact, all you have to do is know the things he likes, such as watching a particular program on television, or delay in sleep a bit, and then withdraw the privilege of it, But without excess or negligence.
Third:
Follow the warning method: This method is useful in many cases, all you have to do is to warn the child of the consequences of his actions, and you can warn him twice if the same error, and the third time, choose the appropriate punishment.
Fourthly:
Reward him for his good creation, and punish him when committing the wrong, reward him, when he refrains from the unacceptable behavior set him earlier, and you can offer many rewards to him to choose is what he wants.
Fifth:
To impose a fine on him, This method can not be followed with children under five years, and is to deduct part of the child's expenses as a punishment for wrongdoing. You can also set different penalty values for every bad behavior you commit.
Sixth:
Do more work at home: If your child is the kind of person who prefers to paint on the walls and tamper with the contents of the house, do not start yelling at him, but commissioned him to clean up the chaos that caused, and here knows the result of what he did, do not repeat it again.
Now we can wait for your opinions and suggestions, which will benefit you more, for a happy life for our children.
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taboo but very important topic for whom who have small children. hard but required, me too have learned sometimes only the hard way, thanks to my parents :D
the hard question for me is though, do I want to punish my children the hard way, like I had to learn it sometimes. I had received a slap here or there, and most of the time I earned it. But then again, we would have to ask ourselves, how did it make me feel, what alternative would have resulted in me improving my relationship to my parents. I don't know the answers but I just had to think of those questions reading your comment
My parents did much 'better' than their own parents did educate them, and for the education and culture and religion my parents have had. I would do much better to my own children (if I have any someday) with the 'better' education I got from my parents. I guess an immediate punish right after the some bad behavior is sometimes much better than the a psychological game of reward , but that depends on the context. These days lots of children can not be taught about respect for the other people because modern culture yet does not know how to teach respect besides using authoritative relationship that is also required between parenting and children.
Nice post bro..Thank you for sharing👌👍✌
Thank you
This is a terrible article. You haven't even quoted the educational expert. Who is it? You should read Alfie Kohn's book about how useless punishment and rewards are.
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