I have talked about some serious topics in the past few days that´s why I thought to write about something insignificant today...
Who things he or she have never lied before? I believe that this is actually a lie because I have found some great inspirations on Snapchat that almost everyone of us uses on a regular basis.
I suppose everyone tells little white lies. Quite often they're necessary to make someone feel better or prevent feelings from being hurt. Whoppers? No, that's dangerous and they'll boomerang. - Richard Chamberlain
Would life be better if we would act natural and how we really feel in order to live in healthier relationships with others? In my opinion it´s completely fine to tell white lies to people who are far away from your personal life just because those small lies can make them feel better. But you should be truly honest to people who are inside your small circle!
1. How are you doing?
Well, we get asked the question quite daily and dont you answer this one with "I´m fine" even if you dont? Even if it´s small, it´s a lie...
2. Have you really always anything planned?
We often get asked to meet up but sometimes we answer with "Sorry, I have plans" just to escape the situation?
3. Remind me tomorrow
I had to laugh at this one because it´s actually very true. Your computer sometimes reminds you of new updates or dates inside your schedule. But who of you also clicks on the "Remind me tomorrow"- button even if you will click it for the next couple of days again?
4. Saying no to food
Do you know the moments when someone is offering you food and you deny it in order to be polite but you will think about savoring it for the next few hours?
5. Pretending to not know...
Okay, now please be honest to yourself. Have you ever pretend to not know facts about a person that you actually know to a 100% because you stalked him or her ?
6. Terms and Conditions
Have you really always read the terms and conditions? ... 🙄
7. Going to sleep
Have you ever pretend going to bed but instead of sleeping and taking rest you watched Netflix or other series for hours?
8. Keep in touch
If we meet new people we use to act polite which is a natural thing I believe...
Do you know these moments when you say "Let´s keep in touch" even if you intend to never see these people again?
9. Remember it later?
I have definitely lied to myself at that point. Have you ever told yourself that you dont need to write something down because you will definitely remember it later? Well, I think the opposite happened right after...
10. On your way...
You use to tell "I´m on my way" even if you dont or maybe still lay in bed.
11. Compliments
You politely give others compliments which they want to hear even if you dont mean them.
12. Have you heard of...
You sometimes answer the question "Have you heard of...?" with yes even if you have no clue, only to be a part of the crew.
13. Missed a call...
Have you ever denied a phone call and pretended to just missed it? Just because you didnt want to talk to that person or about a certain topic at the moment?
14. I´m never drinking again
Alcohol can be really bad sometimes especially when you had a little bit too much of it the last night. Have you ever told yourself or others to never drink again and all those promises were forgotten just a few hours or days later ?
15. I´ll do it tomorrow
Well, I always say to myself "If you dont do it now, you will never do it!" and this is actually very true. Most people use to say I´ll do it tomorrow but they will repeat this sentence from day to day ...
Have you found some multiple matches? As I said earlier, I would recommend to stop using white lies in front of people you really like because also white lies make you being unreal. I have made the experience that a relationship between friends doesnt work if you keep being unreal. It´s all about being honest and real to each other! Never forget that.
Good friends care for each other. Close friends understand each other, but true friends stay forever...Beyond words, beyond distance, beyond time...
I would love to read your reaction and experiences about those white lies above.
Have you ever exposed something lying to you?
Thank you for reading
Stay focsed
Love, Soldier
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Number 6 is soo true I never read the terms and condition and simply click on the agree button ....
yes pls don't lie.. be happy
I thought it was Don't worry Be happy 😀
WoW Thats so awesome lies HAHAHA
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Numbers 6 & 10 are the best! haha
Literally gave me a laugh because half of them I may say or do on a daily basis and never admit it . Truth hurts ;)
It does... Thats why I recommend to really stay honest to your friends even if they are "just" little white lies. But funny right, I had to laugh to while thinking and researching about it
I'm sure a lot of people got caught and laughed a little today . Cheers 🍻
Wow. Hahahahaha. You are really correct. I tot i was the only one conscious of this lies.
Haha no you´re not :P
i will do it tomorrow:
ye we are lying everyday , even to our self !
Great !
This is incredible! Love it. Followed...
Thanks :)
I'll do it tomorrow - a typical lie of the kids :)
I´m never drinking again - this is my typical lie to myself :) when I have a hangover :)
Right? I knew some of these lies will match to some of you ;)
I actually have real problems with those little lies..I am too honest, I can never do it and really have to force myself, because often if you don't use those little lies, it comes across as really blunt! But sometimes I wish we would stop using them and just be honest and understanding instead!
@pandorasbox I had this Problem when i Visited canada at the age of twenty. Bring a very honest Person i kept affronting people by my Platin honesty. i think it's really a more intensive phenomenon in the englisch speaking world, altough I have learned to be less direct in the Last 17 years...
I agree... Also little white lies are still lies and if we would tell the truth to peoples faces it might hurt at first but then they get to know your true thoughts!
Exactly! And if we get used to honesty we will grow to be understanding rather than get hurt too easily
Heh this is so much about me , lies drinks , do it tomorrow :)
Time to start fresh :P
I think I have used every one of your 15 lies this week at some point haha. luck has it monday is tomorrow so I get to start again.
Nice share, thanks:)
Haha let´s see what you are going to say next Sunday lol
Hahahahaha
I think am guilty of all
Got you!
Sooo true, most of these "lies" we do on daily basis. I think it's okay as long as we only 'lie' to get annoying people out of our way (for example) by not answering the phone. But more important is not to lie to yourself! Every goal and promise you make needs to be thought out well. Btw. number 3 made me laugh too haha
Totally agree, those white lies are okay as long as you use them to get annoying people out of your way! So true! But not to yourself is maybe the most important thought out of this post!
I really use number 3 a lot actually, I always press the remind me tomorrow button :D
Thanksgiving for sharing your thoughts dear
Nice post
Thanks!
Well these are true and the fact is we actually never cared and thought these lies have now become a part of our personality.
"I'm not lying" - most probably a lie
@soldier really nice post have a good day ahead keep up the good work best wishes thankyou
Wow it's really an great articles!! Thanks for sharing these amazing with us @soldier!
Big thumbs up!
So true. Some day we'll find out what sinister terms and conditions we're actually agreeing to. :P
Yes, I enjoyed it. We speak these lies in the daily life.
Hmm so true I have used the ol I'll do it tomorrow and never drinking again.the best one is giving false complements done that a few times.You are completely right be real and you will attract those that are real.I am following you and will try to stay focused lol if you have the time please feel free to drop by @user0103283 and check out my blog any up votes you could give would help greatly thank you for taking the time to share a few truths and laughs with us all,cheers
OMG, 2, 7, 12, 15 so true for me ! :)
I stopped 4 long ago, now I always eat what people offer me, whether it is polite or not! Miam!
We are the master of lie. We lie, here, there, to him and to her. It's a part of growing. Kids can tell lier go to hell.
I'm guilty of all except 14...😂😂😂😂.. This is so true
Lol generally we didn't think about this. But in your post there is a point that we speak indirectly lie and we didn't know about that. Now whenever anyone ask me 'how are you' I will remembered your post and makes me laugh thanx for sharing.....
@soldier hhh yeah that's so true hh loved the post ^^ keep it up follow me btw and Upvote some of my posts plz i d be greatful ^^
Yep, Every single one of them, Every single day!
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Haha brightened up my night! the first one though is SO TRUE....
How many times have I said Im great thanks, while deep down I feel like either crying or punching someone in the face!:P
Thanks for sharing that ray of light, had a good laugh!:) xoxox
LMAO @ terms and conditions
Sometimes it becomes necessary to tell a lie.
You just exposedour day to days lie.....
The start tomorrow one with the diet happens to me a lot! I'm working on it happening less! lol
Funny post...good food for reflection...always room for improvement...thanx!
"accept term and conditions" lol
Amazing post and narrative.
Thanks for sharing such great post with us!
Number 8 applies often to 'friends' and not only new people we meet. How often have we bumped into someone we know, exchange pleasantaries, and conclude by saying "We must catch up for drinks/dinner soon", "Yes, that would be fantastic". Note the word 'soon' 😉
So what is the lie, the question? or the answer? We all know that No one that ask that question really wants an honest answer, and no one really wants to reply honestly to the question.
?. how are you?
A.Oh I'm feeling a little bit under the weather, I stub my big toe about an hour ago, and it still hurts like a son-of-a-bitch, but at least it has taken my mind off the operation that I need to have tomorrow, all because I lied to myself saying I'll quit tomorrow. But what the hay, I need a ten day break, so may as well spend it in the hospital.
Questioner-thinking to self shit I knew I shouldn't have asked now I'm going to be late for work, because I'll look like an insensitive idiot if I say I really need to get going, sorry for your troubles.
Greet Post
LOL. Good one, and apart from no. 10 rest all fits with me. No. 14 cracked me up because that is totally me after a nightout with friends.
Following you....
I will do it tomorrow
am on my way
haha...u really got me
This isn't exactly a lie, but I find that it's always on the regular when people talk about other people they just met.
Me: Oh you met him? What's he like?
Friend: Oh, he's pretty nice I guess.
Man. Nice? Just nice?!
Is he not interesting? What are his passions? What does he do in his free time? What books does he read? What's his favourite drink? Can he cook? Where is he from?
Let's stop saying that can we? Let's talk about more interesting shit cause everyone has a story! Good one @soldier
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hahah we all were telling lies hahah
Yea. we all lie everyday just to scale through,sometimes we say a word as reflex cause we use to saying such....it's just part of the world today cause we use to it..lol
they ask how are you and you are not really fine :(
I'll do it tomorrow is one that I find doing.
Also if I don't want to go to a certain event, I will make sure there are other plans I am doing.