again a thoughtprovoking topic and a very deep explanation
I thought about it as well. many people try to seem independent from other people's opinion, and they often say smth like "I don't care". But actually in reality it is obviously that they do, but they can't realize it.
Even saying such proud words is also a part of unconscious desire to be mentioned by others.
There's nothing bad in our desire to think about other people's opinion about our actions, but the main is it should not rule us completely. And, of course, we must select people whose opinion will have great meaning for us.
If we follow the crowd, we are just a part of it.