Those aren't easy decisions to make. It's tough to know what to do, but you also know that you love @lynncoyle1 very much and that she loves you very much too! It's not so much about what you can do for her, but who you are. You're her man, so even when you can't do the things you'd like for her, she's still there by your side because it's where she fits.
I'm still incredibly impressed with how both of you are handling all this.
understand completely. It's where I fit and it's where Brian fits, and I really don't think I will ever fit again like this as long as I live.Thank you @themanwithnoname; you
I feel the same way about my wife, so I know it must be one of the worst things in the world for you both to be going through. I also know that it's not about performance, it's not about what you can get, it's about loving that person and wanting what's best for them regardless of their limitations, shortcomings, failures, problems, whatever. They were put in your life to be loved, so you do it! It becomes more natural than not loving them because they are that important. It's a place that's free of judgement, condemnation, or hate. There's peace and safety in knowing where you belong. I'm really glad you have each other in this difficult time.
Thank you my friend and when I say that I mean it, thank you MY FRIEND.......You have made me see that my girl will be ok with the people here. This platform to me is the most positive almosphere I have ever witnessed. You know back home to teach my stepsons respect @lynncoyle1 and I would make us as a group make hundreds of sandwhiches and get large flasks of coffee and head to the bad part of Vancouver. There in all hours we would walk and feed the homeless plus any clothing we had to spare. I found out that the boys did it again on there own. I feel now that my legacy is complete. No bloodline to carry on but the best two sons I could ever have asked for. My love will forever be there and what I learned from my Dad moves along. Thank you for letting me vent..........
You're welcome, my friend! There are a lot of positive people here. I'm glad that I can help encourage you and her.
That's awesome that you guys would do that! There are so many people in difficult circumstances and oftentimes they appreciate the help. It's not always easy to ask, but when someone shows up with food and clothes, it can be a huge blessing. That's great to hear that the boys are carrying on the legacy. It sounds like they're both squared away men. You should be really proud. :)
I'm happy to listen to your thoughts! Feel free to share them.