First of, I must say your picture in this post is lovely and great.
As a Life Coach, I often tell people that for them to progress they will have t embrace change. The change may be tough initially but if we stay still and endure, we will enjoy the dividends.
Life itself is not a pot of soup. You just have to cook it as it comes raw and then make it into whatever you want it to be.
Difficult? Yes
Impossible? No
So Get Up and keep grinding
I am @tolusedove