Ofcourse, I'd like to win but I don't want to compete!
I win when all others win too. If you lose then I too can't win. My winning is in co-operation and not in competition. I don't want one-upmanship but a collaborative approach where all of us can win together. I don't encourage a comparison with others because as you say:
No one person is any more special than another.
It's nice that you gave your own opinion :) Thanks for that.
Life doesn't have to be at all a competition. What I meant by 'win', is more about winning the game of life. Not necessarily beating someone else. Just overcoming all odds, and being a WINNER :)