I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.
~Carl Gustav Jung~
I love that quote. It says a lot about how we have the choice to be in control or not.
Look, I'm not going to beat around the bush. I'm also not here to make sure you are comfortable. I am here today to do quite the opposite. Every single on of us need to get out of our comfort zones!
Now, if you are super happy with your life, and enjoy thoroughly the situation that you are in, then you can take what I'm about to say however you'd like. However, if you are seeking change, and a new dimension in your life, then you need to listen.
Life doesn't care about your situation. You are in control of your life. You want to know the formula? Here it is:
There you have it. ACTIONS = RESULTS.
To all the guys out there, my advice is simple: MAN UP!
You need to be able to absorb all that sh*t and focus on what really matters. It's about having a bulletproof core within you! Nothing can stop a man on a mission.
Stop accommodating yourself because it makes you feel better. There's a reason it's called your 'comfort zone'. It's your body telling you to stay here, because this is where it knows it is 'safe'. Your body just wants to stay away from pain. The thing that your body doesn't know is that it's pain threshold can be adjusted.
I like to think of this in the analogy of the Bugatti Chiron car. That car has over 1500 horse power. The owner who purchases that car, gets two sets of keys. The one is for a normal supercar driver. Then you get the other key. Now, this key can be used to unlock the cars full potential. See, they bottlenecked the car's power, because 90% of people could not handle that kind of power.
You need to unlock your Bugatti in life!! Take that second key, and double your horse power! No one person is any more special than another. All it takes is a decision.
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So true. Talk soon.
I see many of the comments are liking my quote :)
Thank you for that my friend :) Keep up your hustle!
Thanks for the words of wisdom @enazwahsdarb! Sometimes in our lives, it is just really hard to focus on what needs to be done- too many distractions and uncertainties just weigh us down.
For me I have faced a lot of struggles, I am never in my comfort zone that I sometimes feel I do not know my old self anymore. Having said that, these uncertain things also make me a better person. A new me who is stronger and bolder who can face whatever it is that life throws upon me.
Every person desires to be happy, successful, wealthy etc, yet few realize the hard work, sacrifice, dedication, persistence it takes to achieve success. When ones desire to be successful outweighs their feelings of comfort then change can occur. Unwavering focus on a goal is key aligned with persistence to reach said goal.
So many people look up to others in the marketing world and think how easy they have it. What they don't realize is all the blood sweat and tears that went into it. Those long sleepless nights and the true grind. When your not grinding and bettering yourself well guess what someone else is. This is what drives me.
Amen to that man! Nicely said. It's exactly that.
Look, I think specifically for the marketing niche, many of those marketers actually promote the task being quite simple and easy, and for that, I can understand the mass misconception and stereotype.
I would have agree though, I don't think many people know what kind of effort it truly takes to succeed. Thanks for this awesome comment :) Nice motivation! I can certainly relate.
when I get on the treadmill I walk. Today when I get on I am going to run. I know I am scared I might fall or other people around me will judge me. @cleverbot this post is motivational
DUUUDE I love it! :D That's the best example ever hahaha!
Go be a BOSS.
I think you are one confused bot :D
You are confused my friend :)
That's not very nice!
You need to learn some manners!
Nothing can stop a man on a mission Only if he is self-confident.
Nice analogy of the Bugatti, totally agree with that. Decisions can drive people crazy when the lost control. I can see you're making your post even prettier. I'm going to work on my post the double now, to make them prettier.
Thanks for all the time motivate us! Glad to read :)
Ahh what a beautiful response Jessy :) Thanks for that.
I'm glad my actions have motivated you to push harder on your content! I want you to do your best, and go for gold :)
My pleasure! Stay awesome :)
Thank you my ninja friend :)
Hi thank you for your motivation !.
Well we need to focus about what we want not what we don't want ,.
In my experience, most of us are not aware of what we want in each moment. We haven’t even thought about it. We are busy reacting—in fight, flight, or freeze—and not focused on what we want. And most times, particularly in challenging times, we are focused on what we don’t want – and we don’t even know it.
So know must focus about what you want just pay attention and dream big you will .
Love and help people and you will get back what you do that's what we call it karma (getting what you give ). Be positive.
It's a pleasure my friend! Thank you for enjoy it :)
You said that very well! Thank you for that!
Just dream big and pay attention like you just said :) Stay awesome!
Welp, this is the post for me. I've been in my comfort zone for too long to be honest, but it's tough man, I've got the most pessimistic personality and getting out of the comfort zone is tough. Thanks for this post bro.
I'm glad my man! Just having that reality check like you just did, that's powerful stuff!
I'm glad you are being honest with yourself.
Don't stress though. These things don't happen over night.. Just one step at a time, and sooner than you think, you will have changed for the better.
Thanks for me mental boost, for real.
Anytime! :) Let's do this!!
@enazwahsdarb you always have this thing where you make simple ideas into an amazing post. Short but precise.
Last Saturday I found a nice application where I can enter the things I want to achieve and they are divided into four parts. Important and urgent, important but not urgent, urgent but not important, and not important or urgent. I feel in love with this app for it always remind me which tasks are more important and urgent than the other. Before most of the time, I work on the easier tasks first before doing the difficult tasks and most of the time, I cannot finish the difficult tasks. I got lazy.
Having a monthly, weekly and daily plan is very important for me now. For I no longer wonder what should I need to do next. There are days that I cannot achieve my goals but that's okay. I'll do better tomorrow. As long as I won't give up, I'm fine. No matter how slow my progress is. It's way better than not doing anything at all.
I'll join in your next PPT, I promise. I just need to create more valuable content first. Thanks for your help. Talk to you soon.
Thank you very much for that! I really appreciate that!
That application sounds like it can help you a ton! Awesome!
Having that regular plan is very important! Keep at it.
Ahh thank you for you kindness my friend. How are you doing by the way?
Yeap. It's lke app. I got very busy with the group that I failed to do my daily post. Talking about consistency😂😂😂. Post guides, house rules, and tutorials so it is easier for them to start at steemit.
I think I made enough to keep them busy, I maybe able to concentrate on doing my 30%. Only done the 70% this past few days. Hope for the best.
Thanks for asking my friend. I see and feel your passion these past few days. You're on fire! Keep doing it. I'm following your footsteps. 😉
Cool analogy. I like Bugatti's, the Veyron anyway, I have not yet seen the Chiron.
Actions do equal results, the cause and effect is a universal law I believe. However I think it necessary to try different actions in order to get the desired results, but action is most definitely necessary!
As Einstein says "the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results".
In addition to this I would say make discomfort your comfort zone and you will always be comfortable.
That's the Bugatti Chiron :)
Well of course :) Success is really just process of elimination.. Nicely said!
I love that phrase. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Stay awesome :)
Whoa, that looks cool as hell! 😎
Great post Mr @enazwahsdarb fear is a totally dream crusher. I love how your post are very encouraging. Another way to re phrase this beautiful message is by saying to be a kid again. I have always been the type of person to seek knowledge and experiences. As I've gotten older I don't take that many chances because of the fear of failure. I took the chance to try this platform and loving every momment of it. I love being able to connect to someone who is in the other side of the world. I love being able to share my passions. Thanx again! Up vote and re esteem for sure ❣️ Let's spread the love.
Be all you do be done in love, @splendorhub
Thank you for those kind words!! :) I appreciate that.
Wow nicely said about being a kid again. Very true.
You really had a sweet message right there. Thank you! Yes, let's spread the love :)
I just grew another hair on my chest by reading this manly post.
Jokes a side actually a really good read! Don't be afraid to fail, don't be afraid to leave your comfort zone. Instead start embracing it and become comfortable in being uncomfortable!
That's what I'm talking about hahaha!!
Yes. It's exactly those points. Just DO!! :)
Good motivation. For me my challenge here on steemit is getting what to post about. Do you have an idea of how that can be over-comed?
Mmmm good question. I used to definitely have that struggle.
For me, I make a list of 10 topics at once. I don't leave that notepad until I have 10 topic ideas written down. It may take a bit of time 10-30 minutes, but just dedicate yourself to getting the lit done.
Once you have that list done, you should be able to write with more ease.
For me, I take it a step further. I do the same, but with my cartoon designs. So I pre-design my tumbnails so I have to write about them :D
Thank you. I will definitely consider this information.
I'm glad :) Now go for gold!!! :D
Hahahahaha. Ok
Strangely, I am motivated most when tough dudes I look up to tell me to man up.
That's it right there brother!! I'm glad you find motivation out of that.
Now go use that motivation and go kick ass!!
There's a hero in everyone, specially in you :)
That was very sweet of you to say about @aldentan :)
We need to step out of our comfort zones. That's what I learned from my previous experiences. If you wouldnt try, you wouldnt know if you will succeed or not. I learned that we need not to be afraid of failures. We need to be afraid of not trying and regretting it in the end.
I remember I was once afraid of taking the licensure examination for Engineering because I was afraid of failing.. If I haven't tried it, I guess I wouldnt be an engineer today. It was a good thing that I conquered my fear and tried it anyways despite the "What Ifs". ☺️
Wow nicely said.. Thank you for that!
Our comfort zones are so nice but yet so terrible. It's like the casino hahaha!
Stay awesome!
It's so true A man on a mission is just Unstoppable specially if he is motivated about the Topic.
Yes!! Totally agreed.
True passion will always portray into the work a person does. That's powerful stuff :) Thanks for that brother!
Great post and advise
I came to that realization a few years back and try to push my comfort zone regularly
Well one area I refused to get out of my comfort zone was bungy jumping no way am I jumping off a perfectly good bridge and trust rubber bands LOL
Only my pleasure :) Glad you liked it.
No worries, I feel exactly the same! I will NOT trust a rope for my life thank you :D
Am with you sir... I love the way always start you post lines, with eye catching and heart resonating quotes. Snd then the content resonant with your quote
Am thinking of using your style and see what happens whence.. Am sure to give you feedback.
Thank you for that! That's great that you like it.
Awesome :) I have a few people now trying to copy my designs and ideas. Just make sure it's unique to you :)
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Hahaha love it! I'm telling you hey.. These last few days I have definitely needed a few of those drinks! :D
Nice one. What did you think of the article?
Do what feels good, Do what gives you strength, Do whatever you could, Do it with passion; everything will be possible!
YES!! Love it man :D
Ofcourse, I'd like to win but I don't want to compete!
I win when all others win too. If you lose then I too can't win. My winning is in co-operation and not in competition. I don't want one-upmanship but a collaborative approach where all of us can win together. I don't encourage a comparison with others because as you say:
It's nice that you gave your own opinion :) Thanks for that.
Life doesn't have to be at all a competition. What I meant by 'win', is more about winning the game of life. Not necessarily beating someone else. Just overcoming all odds, and being a WINNER :)
This is a great up boost, one doesn't have to sit and let destiny take control of life, he has to work and shape to the way he or she desires..
Hell yeah!! That's it right there :)
Let's do this.
Nice bit of Monday motivation to gear up for the new week @enazwahsdarb
Ahh I'm so glad. Thank you for that!
I'm really glad you got some motivation out of what I had to say.
Yes, you are right, but everyone who is here is looking for money and follow moeny thank you so much for your post and good luck my friend
Hahaha thanks!
I wouldn't say 'everyone'.. But yeah sure many people do chase the money.
Thanks for always lighting the fire under me constantly
Only my pleasure my man!
Glad you are getting that motivation :)
Awesome love the longer post and hope to make today and the rest of the week a Bugatti kind of week by setting a goal of making 50 SP (100 total) by the end of the week! So won't see the results this week, but we'll definitely see it next week!
Awesome!!
I love this. These are the kinds of things I enjoy seeing. People making goals and taking action from my words :)
Go for it! You can definitely achieve that!
Some of your images on esteem come up like this in every article.
Oh serious..? Well, thanks for letting me know. That's super weird.
I will investigate and make sure it doesn't happen in the future.
I appreciate that bro :)
yeah I don't know why. Cause in the laptop works... maybe it is a esteem thing and it also works on the mobile browser version. Check that out.
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I can not yet be the boss.
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