You have made an important step, congratulations. Of course, the cards did not make this decision for you, they only gave a voice to your inner self.
And about your worries, everything will be fine ;) 3 years ago, I literally forced my wife to quit her job and start living a free life. I have a patriarchal upbringing (the best part of it), so I believe that a man should take care of the financial viability of the family. But at the same time, this does not mean that the wife should do household chores. Only if she likes to do it. After she stopped thinking about money and work, we all became much happier :)
Oh gosh yes, it was absolutely ME being brave and stupid! The cards just validated me!
Awesome. So did my man. And I think many men feel that way - it does put a bit of pressure on them. I wanted to be an independent woman, so it was hard for me to let hte money side go, but now I think - well, this is great, I'm happy to iron your shirts if you bring home the proverbial bacon!
Yes!!!! That's what my hubs hopes - that I'll be happier. There's a great saying that goes 'happy wife, happy life' - haha, that's probably true!
The absolute true truth based on the wisdom of our ancestors!