When you don’t allow yourself to heal, you leave yourself in a vulnerable state
Let me give brief meaning to what vulnerable is
when you are more or most likely to be exposed to the chance of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally
Once we are vulnerable in our relationship and we actually got attacked, we have to learn from what really happened to us first, what might have caused that to happen and why did it even happen in the first instance then we will be able to forgive ourselves and move on with our life, this will really help us while we are in another relationship Because we won't want to make same mistake whatever a guy or lady. Or
Better still we should confide in our new found relationship so that we can both find things happen positively by so doing we are actually going to be heal completely from what had happened, I will go with this popular saying that two head are better than just one, no matter the situation I believe this thus count
I remember dating a lady who just got out of a relationship, in fact, she was just coming out of it.
It does happen brother, I believe by now you had learnt a lot because how a relationship does work, you really us a desirable lecture that we needed. We should always try our best to heal first before jumping or dangling into any forms of relationship.
Yes, we should always heal first, and life is all about learning. We leave ourselves to attack when we fail to learn and pick the lessons in every situation.
Thank you for your time. I really appreciate it.