@techslut
first resteemed !
second thing, you made me smile the whole time reading! <3
ok ,so I totally agree with what you are saying ,but on the other hand...
lets imagine a nerd guy who hasn't kissed any girl for a longgg
time! and his self-confidence about himself is so low that only success on a few dates will help him get out from this loop(of "im suck! girls hate me!")
there are lot of them, so let me tell you im not a trainer in the art of seduction!
but guys like this need some technique .
I know friends that had really hard time with the other gender! and yes they needed some tips.
actually I know a sweet guy which he is "himself " at 100% but he don't know how to turn on his wife (he loves her) and She got divorced from him and as excuse she said " i'm not attracting to him".
so what you are saying is Absolutely true but also definitely not true.
soo in conclusion ...
the goal is being yourself.. feel fine with yourself
Concentrate on communication
But some people find it hard for them to even communicate with their gender and need a special technique.
so try to understand :P
So let's agree that we do not agree ;)
Or it could make it worse. A few awkward dates might just make him hate himself more because he just sits there scared or tries to follow some tricks that stopped working 30 years ago. It's foolish.
Correct. And these people need to learn to communicate with PEOPLE not just the opposite gender. As for your friend - couples have issues. And those issues are not usually solved by pick-up artists, but rather by couple's counselors. It's not about the gender thing, but rather about communication within a relationship. Which they appeared to have lost.
We can surely disagree, and I still love you, but your views on courtship and relationships are long past their expiration date. :P
correct but you can not ignore from the differences 100%...
communicate with a guy it's not like communicate with a girl.. (It is clear that every woman is a full world.)
And every man is a full world! Aren't you? You're not half a world! :P
There are differences between people. Trying to categorize and generalize might seem like a good solution because it's easier on the brain, but it really isn't. There's no recipe for a good relationship or a good date, because ingredients are always different.