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Breakup! What really causes it and as an individual what can cause you to breakup with your partner?
I've heard different persons say alot about breakups, i’ve heard them pin the emotional instability on a particular gender and of course they gave their points to as why they think the way they do! Before we go through that i would love to know about you reading this post; what can cause you to breakup with your partner? What is that thing you just cannot bear to see them do? Everyone has their own limits and emotional patience or boundaries! I'll be sharing some causes of breakup with you all today…
Most common problem that causes breakup in a relationship is cheating, cheating can break any relationship but it depends on an individual’s definition of what cheating is; I've come to observe we all have different ideas of what cheating is… while some merely seeing their partner flirt or be friendly to the opposite sex on social media calls it cheating, others will term it cheating only when their partner ends up having sex with the other woman! In fact I know someone who only sees the motive behind her partner's action and judges with that! There's also another who doesn't mind her partner cheating as long as he is still in love with her while others even say you can't be in love with a person and cheat! Well, what can I say? Matters of the heart are really complicated..
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Second thing I would say causes break ups is lack of understand and ineffective communication. Your partner should be one of few persons who understands you even if you do not talk, he/she should know when you're in a good mood or a bad one even if you're pretending or trying to hide it! If this trait isn't found in a relationship there would always be clashes and then you might even find out it was all a misunderstanding and there was really no reason for a fight… this goes on and on and you just get tired of the whole thing and that might lead to a breakup! Also if you cannot effectively communicate with your partner then it is a problem, if you always tell someone else your problems and gave them talk to your partner about it, that's just very wrong and insulting to your partner, as a person in a relationship even when you have issues with your partner you should talk to them directly about it, open your hearts to each other and know where you're going wrong, it helps the relationship grow and creates room for understanding!
Great information .
This post connects with me. I've had breakups that was caused primarily because of cheating. Although it was a long distance relationship we barely kept in touch due to my busy work schedule.
Breakups are painful and take a lot of time to get over it.
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