But @raised2b and I never get annoyed with each other.... hahaha
This is really SUCH an important thing to write about! Most people just bottle up their annoyance and emotions - which only makes things worse. I love your advice to voice the frustration so that the relationship can grow from it.
I loved your phrase about "hugging it out". That sounds like a much better alternative to bottling it up. <3
It's a process: detecting you are feeling something unpleasant, determining what that is, figuring out the words, expressing it, discussing it, comforting and reassuring if necessary, hugging it out, and then feeling good.