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RE: Heal First, Part II. Contributed by @Olawalium

in #love7 years ago

Continued from part part 1

Life is sweet when you have someone you love so much they say ...........and I’m a witness to that. But life could equally be bitter when you lost beloved ones.

In my own case, life has been so unfair but I as human has no choice than to take it like it comes. And so it happened.

Five years of relationship I believe is enough to make up one’s mind on if one wants to be with one’s partner which I did and I’m loving it. Family members love her, friends and peers adore her. Mama wants me to marry her, relatives are ready to pay bride price but the table turned and here I am with my broken heart 💔

Fate and Destiny to me is confusing, does Fate works for Destiny or Destiny works for fate, maybe they work together cause what happened to me I can’t categorize if it’s Fate or Destiny

My heart aches
My tummy rumbles
My head became so light
My hands shaking
My feet wet
My system failed
My mind wandered endlessly
My thoughts blank
The earth trembled
And the sky cane falling down
My vision blurred
As tears roll down my cheeks
And I wish I had somewhere to run to in order to dodge this

My Reply to the heart breaking news
Sighs... I just can’t Imagine another man saying I love you and you’re saying it back . I can’t imagine you to be Mrs Someone else. But as you’ve said... it’s for the best of us both . I wish you well too. I can’t send a voice note cause I’m crying as I’m typing this. I’m feeling exactly how I felt like the World is ending when I received the news of my father’s death. I never ever ever thought we won’t end up together but destiny has it. Human only plans and God execute. This is where fate has brought us. I will never forget you honey. You’d forever be my Abeni. It’s so hard to believe we are no more, what a wicked world we are.

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This is really deep, and i could feel your hurt and pains, as you typed this.
Life sometimes deal us a big blow, and our background should never put our back on the ground, but then, it is not easy, even at that, how else could be do better if we don't move on. As much as it hurts, i want you to see the lessons in it and TRY to move on. I know how much it hurts, trust me, and i will do a series soon about myself, so you will understand that i have known pains, deeper than anyone can imagine, but i came out fighting. Stop focusing on the hurt, focus on the lessons. You will be fine. Stay strong and i am always here for you.

Thank you for sharing this, i know it means a lot to you.

Yeah bro , great article. Those who haven’t been there before wouldn’t understand this topic oh healing First. Yeah it’s so hard to move on but it’s a process one can’t avoid. As I’ve said , only those who had the experience will relate better .

No doubt about that. I totally feel you on that. It takes process. Take as much time as you need. Stay strong.