What ever happened to me, I find solutions as quick as possible, and once I see the solutions, I try forget the past accident so as to move on
It's better to be healed in time to forget the past cos you if you didn't, you are hurting yourself technically and that won't help you get the right person and you may end up loosing the love of your life while you are still thinking about the past
Often times we look at a closed door, that we fail to see the doors right in front of us. Holding on to past hurts clouds our minds and robs us of the present. You don't only hurt yourself technically, you do, even mentally, physically, morally, socially, spiritually, etc...don't worry, i won't say politically. Haha
Thank you for your time.