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RE: Heal First, Part III, Contributed by @Olawalium

in #love7 years ago

Wow
At least she opened up and told you her mind. She choose her ex and she is happy which is fine with you

Things would be fine if they all do this way and we will be prepared just like you but most of them left without goodbyes and this hurts so much till extend it could cause something else

For them to say they wanna go back to their ex and you don't want them to go is another thing entirely but at least they should say goodbye, not just left uninformed

But you are a man and you got the humor sense

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People are different, and that is one thing you need to come to terms with. They won't do things just to please you all the time, they will do it for them. If they leave without goodbyes, move on. She has, so why should you put your life on hold over someone who has left and obviously enjoying herself? You won't heal as fast as you should if you keep trying to find a reason as to why she left. You need to know she left for her, it has nothing to do with you. It is her choice to move on, make it your own choice to move on too. That is what makes you a man. Be in control of your emotions and stop holding on to the hurts. i know it hurts, but then, she is gone, so what can you do???

Nothing than to let her go
Nothing than to move on
Nothing than to get heal
Nothing than to find her replacement
Nothing than to let her know she is nothing
Nothing than to let her know I can do without her
Nothing than to let her know she lose a lot

Don't get it wrong. Be better for you, don't just be better to prove her wrong. The motivation has to be internally driven, not by her. Nothing than to let love find you again, after you have healed.

I will try
Thanks much