Before that though, the very first step of success would be to actually notice people that are interested in you. I guarantee that everyone on this planer has someone interested in them, and they don't know it.
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Yessssssss. And stop looking for them in bars!!! 🙈
Ermahgerd @limabeing, YES! I mean, okay, I met my husband of 13 years in a bar. He was working the door and I'd gone there to celebrate a job offer coming through, but I wasn't looking for longterm relationships through the bar/club scene. I have a 'friend' who has spent the past decade bemoaning his inability to find a woman who is family oriented, wants to settle down and have kids, can hold an intelligent conversation, and is faithful. This same 'friend' meets every woman he beds in clubs, drunk, high, and the first thing he has to tell you about her is her tit size. Oh! And if she doesn't "put out" the first night he doesn't bother calling her again. Fine, if what you're looking or is an excellent set of knockers that's usually drunk and always easy. But don't come crying to me when that criteria doesn't net you Donna fucking Reed!
You know where I found the hotness that is @poet ? Online argument about smoking laws in Israel. I pissed him off something wicked. And now his mine, and I am his, and I don't smoke cigarettes anymore.
Well, that depends. If you really like going to bars, and not just to try and pick up partners, then you could potentially meet someone that matches your interests in a bar.
If you like board games though, go to a board game meetup. Like yoga? Go do yoga. Like poetry? going to a poetry reading.
Very likely, that. And requires some confidence.