After being married for 10 years and together for 12, I can tell you one thing- Love is a choice that two people make everyday. It's hard work to make that choice when the other person is depressed, or being annoying... But if you choose them during those times, and they choose you, then you will make it. When we say that love is magical, we dismiss the work- but love is magical the way that having a baby is magical, or building a house is magical, or creating music is magical. It doesn't just happen- it requires sacrifice.