Be yourself, and if that isn't enough, tough - at least you have porn.
Or just be a better you. I see that as a goal in life regardless of anything else. I try to be a better me. If you are not "enough" to others, you should check if you're "enough" for yourself.
mmyes, very true.
I don't like to walk around self-assessing my actions too much though, this can become an unnecessary obstacle if done too often!
It's not about asserting it's about knowing and understanding that you are imperfect. And in some ways it is what makes you unique. And in others, it shows you how you can grow to be a better you. A fuller you. Hence, a more attractive you.