RE: The Secret to Success with Women

[yairdd]

to sum up, you are saying that man and woman are the same. and we should see a woman as she is the same sex as us.
I don't agree with that, because woman often makes no sense, and nothing we'll do will change that.

I don't like pickup "artists" as well.

But it's a fact that woman acts different from us, man. and they are harder to understand.

I'm always talking to woman the same as I would talk to my male friend, But I understand people who doesn't, and I know why they do this.

My friend is always making Jokes and being really dominant in our group of friends, but when there are girls involved, He's acting different, not making any stupid jokes, but he's still the same guy, dominant, Just not telling any jokes. Acting a bit more serious.

Anyway, I agree with you on some parts and don't agree on some parts.

What a comment post tho!

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[techslut]

because woman often makes no sense, and nothing we'll do will change that

Because men make more sense?! Hell no! I don't know if it's your bad experience with women or my bad experience with men, but we make about the same amount of sense.

woman acts different from us, man. and they are harder to understand.

Nope. Some people are harder to read. Some are easier. If you can't understand women, you can't understand men either.

It's okay to disagree, but also be open to other opinions. I think that friend of yours would really benefit from some gender-blindness.

And thank you for your comment! <3

[yairdd]

1. I think it may be both. and It's not just that. I can see that from my sister and my mother as well. Sometimes they make no sense, they get angry over nothing.

2. I can understand men, and I can sometime understand woman, but most of them are hard to understand. or at least that's my experience.

And yes, I totally agree with you. I'm always open for discussion and open to hearing other opinions.

NO! Thank you for the outstanding post. You should do it more often.

[techslut]

1. Perhaps it's just the women in your family. :)
2. Is it possible that it's not WOMEN you fail to comprehend but rather emotions? Women are more connected to their emotions than men because society lets us. Men are encouraged to be emotionless and strong. Women are encouraged to be emotional and weak. These things are changing now, and perhaps by understanding emotions better (your own and those of others), you can better understand people. And women.

I barely have time to write. You know that. I spend my time teaching noobs and making comments. :)

[yairdd]

1.It's not. It was just another example I added.

1. I guess you are right, women are more connected to their emotions than men. because the society lets us think that " being emotional men is gay " And I don't even understand what's wrong with being gay or emotional.

And the noobs are thankful. :)

[techslut]

There's nothing wrong with being gay or emotional. I am both. :)

[yairdd]

as a religious guy, I agree with you. which might sound shocking to you.
Why?
Because society spread that religious Jews hates gays. which isn't true. only the extremist.

Anyway, I'm going off-topic, to sum up - I agree with you.

[amiramnoam]

Everything is relative dear hehe
but yeah we are sometimes are to understand as well..