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Just doing what I think loving caring people would do.

I got no real beef with the circumstances that have led here because I don't really do malice well.
I'd rather gather data, brainstorm a solution, and see it to fruition, if I can.

Solve the problem rather than assign blame.

I agree, be a part of the solution and not the problem. But that's easier said then done.

It has taken me decades to get here.
Still I struggle when I don't have/take adequate time to respond.
Just negotiating the learning curve, I guess.