I've never met a woman who wants someone with no ambition or interests, or someone who will loaf around while she does all the work to support a family, but this is just common sense.
There are plenty of women who prefer entrepreneurship (with all its risks) to steady jobs! Some even travel the world as digital nomads and bring their children along. Don't assume women are all focused on the boring things in life like security and creature comforts. ;)
Socioeconomic status is bullshit. If you're looking for someone who loves you, don't date women who care about finding a guy to make themselves feel rich or important!
It seems like you also want to avoid statists. I think you should look outside of the mainstream arena since you aren't seeking a partner who is mainstream.