@ogoowinner, you are very correct here, they is a price tag for every demand and desire even at the point where you have done it to others, but here, the golden rules states;
do to others what you want them do to you
the funniest thing here is that many people will think by just helping someone to acheive a goal, their own personal goal will be achieve in the platter of gold, at that they condition their mind and relent ever trying to achieve their goals, yes, truly the golden rules does work, it is an addition, infact it accelerate your success rate when combined with more effort, only the golden rules alone will not help you to get there, do your very best to attempt the additional and you will see your desires running to you as easy as posible.
secondly, never put yourself on expectations, always strive to zero your mind that it may come and it mat not, it is the point of zeroing your mind that miracle happens because here you are not attach to anything, and you are absolutely free of disapointments because you less expect anything.
understanding these few principle will help you live a fulfill and achievable lifestyle.
nevertheless, grace abounce, but it should not be an option for expectation.