It s a very unique question because many people are single due to their work they are not interested in all this type of things and some people are single due to does not have a good looking face and rejected by every girl.
In india many people are single due to family reason like
1)Poverty
2)single because of family problems
3)single due to attitude
4)Not interested in marriage
All people have different mindset and they are having their own opinion for this question but the general people if they are single are listed and i think this is the exact reason for single person.
There is no general answer to this because every individual is different.
But, I speak out of personal experience and what according to me seems like the reason for many people to be single.
I am 28 have been single for life. Have dated just one guy and that relationship too didn't last due to a lot of reasons.
People who have stayed single for too long or prefer to stay single can do so for the following few reasons:
1.The partner you chose is not ready to some terms and neither are you ready to compromise on what you want for yourself.
2.A sense of freedom and the need of not being answerable to anyone is something that is worth a treasure.
3.The number of responsibilities when you are single are way lesser than those that are on people who are married or in relationships.
4.When you time and again see the person you're in a relationship with, calculative about every penny you're spending together, without the need to inherently do something for each other. You give up on it.
5.When you have too many other priorities which potential partners cannot understand or adjust too… You'd rather live in peace than squabble over it everyday.
6.When you've been through a heartbreak and someone who told you you were irreplaceable replaces you in a very short span of time, trust and love feel like fiction and lies. And then you want to save yourself from going through the same struggle again and again.
These are the probable reasons why people stay single in life. Less drama, more freedom.
As the times progressed, being single was not destiny or curse but a choice. Not a few people who choose singles because reluctantly tied in a marriage relationship.
The existence of paradigm change in society related single status itself.
Once 20-year-old woman was asked to get married. Now even though 30 years have not been married also safe.
Vera added that there are several reasons why married age, or in psychology termed social clock, is declining. One of them is the influence of the outbreak of feminism movement both in the world and in Indonesia.
Movement of feminism, according to Vera, indirectly causes the age of dependence on the longer the parent. This is due to the increasing number of people at a young age who want to continue to study as high as possible.
In the past, most people would stop studying after earning a bachelor's degree and then working then getting married. Currently not a few people who choose to continue his studies to a higher level than married.
The higher the education then the age of individuals to be able to independently decline.
Excessive coverage of divorce cases is also seen as the cause of people choosing singles. Cases of over-exhibited divorce make marriage no longer seen as a sacred ceremony.
People then think as if divorce is easy. In the last decade, the rate of divorce cases has increased. Even from the latest data he can, from every 10 marriages there is 1 divorce each year. Uniquely, not infrequently women become individuals who trigger the divorce itself.
It seems that women are increasingly independent. Said the psychologist who just opened his private practice.
Explaining people's perceptions of sexual relations also changed in this era of globalization. More and more people are tolerating pre-marital sexual intercourse. As a result, not a few who then assume that sexual intercourse can be done without having to go through the marriage.
I can't represent individuals who would prefer not to be hitched or wind up in a long haul relationship, yet I'd be upbeat to discuss what it resembled to go through a large portion of my time on earth being single regardless of my craving for association. Despite the fact that I've been joyfully hitched for multi year presently, it's as yet sufficiently late to recall what it resembles to dependably appear to be single, frequently automatically. For me it wasn't an issue of allure, relational abilities, affability, or deciding, as much as it was about the basic actuality that it takes two to tango.
I generally tell individuals that you can control basically everything about your life with the exception of that which takes two to tango. In the event that you contemplate, you learn new information and abilities and it will open up new openings. On the off chance that you work, you will procure cash and make important commitments to society. On the off chance that you exercise and take great care of your body, you will wind up more beneficial and it will appear. In the event that you travel, you will bring back intriguing stories from the street. These are altogether ensured. Be that as it may, on the off chance that you put your heart out there for somebody you choose to love, there is no certification that they will love you back and remain with you. That exclusive happens if the other individual chooses to do likewise as you do.
What one could control, however, is the manner by which to form oneself into the sort of potential accomplice they could see themselves dating. Need a gorgeous accomplice? Embrace a sound way of life, prepare yourself well, and refresh your closet with complimenting garments. Need an intriguing accomplice who could hold a shrewd and pleasant discussion? Read up on some intriguing books, join some fascinating clubs, and focus on some fascinating leisure activities. Need a kind accomplice who is liberal with compassion and support? Be that sort of individual to the general population in your life: your family, companions, collaborators and arbitrary outsiders. Need an accomplice who can give you a decent personal satisfaction? Fabricate yourself a well-paying respectable profession that gives you a sensible extra cash, and invest the effort to keep up your home life well. Need a fiscally secure accomplice? Teach your own particular funds first through strict sparing and contributing propensities.
At the end of the day, in spite of the fact that I had no power over who will focus on being my accomplice, I have full control over what sort of an accomplice I could move toward becoming to the correct individual. What's more, as long as I focus on turning into that very much created individual I'm pleased to be, regardless of whether an accomplice is in the photo turns out to be less applicable. In the event that they're not in the photo, in any event I have my own life dealt with, and it's a really damn great life lacking nothing basic. An accomplice would be a decent expansion, however I'm not frantic to discover one since I needn't bother with them to fill a void in my life. Then again, when the accomplice turns up, I would have a great deal to offer to upgrade their personal satisfaction. What's more, I'd probably wind up with somebody who is similarly as focused on their very own advancement and personal satisfaction.
Having this sort of attitude has been useful for getting rid of potential accomplices who simply aren't removed to remain with the sort of individual I'm resolved to be. The general population I've dated have either adored me or loathed me, however paying little heed to how they wound up feeling, they've all regarded me for the duties I've made to myself. When somebody doesn't stay, that is on account of they weren't right for me in any case, and they're doing me the enormous support of emptying a space that is better held for a meriting accomplice who WILL remain. Obviously, it hasn't been anything but difficult to feel this positive each time I part ways with somebody, yet in my mind I've generally realized that this rationale is correct. Realizing that whatever I felt in those days is impermanent contrasted with reality of my rationale has helped me adapt through my scenes of automatic singleness.
Since I have a conferred accomplice to stay, I'm cheerful I never made due with anybody less. It's been a lifetime of deferred delight, however every one of those single years currently feel well spent. It's helped me center around forming into an individual I'm glad to wind up, thus as an accomplice I've possessed the capacity to offer great fraternity, personal satisfaction, and support for any goal he's focused on accomplishing. What's more, in like manner, I get what I really ask for in my marriage to him.
No doubt about it, in spite of the fact that I never again am single, sometime in the past I was that "constantly single young lady." However by the day's end, I've generally been focused on creating and dealing with myself in the first place, so I could offer the best form of myself to others. Also, in that light, regardless I am an indistinguishable individual today from I was the point at which I was single. The main distinction is that today I'm going through my time on earth on somebody who is similarly as focused on himself as he is to me, and is subsequently ready to offer his best self as he strolls this trip with me.
It s a very unique question because many people are single due to their work they are not interested in all this type of things and some people are single due to does not have a good looking face and rejected by every girl.
In india many people are single due to family reason like
1)Poverty
2)single because of family problems
3)single due to attitude
4)Not interested in marriage
All people have different mindset and they are having their own opinion for this question but the general people if they are single are listed and i think this is the exact reason for single person.
There is no general answer to this because every individual is different.
But, I speak out of personal experience and what according to me seems like the reason for many people to be single.
I am 28 have been single for life. Have dated just one guy and that relationship too didn't last due to a lot of reasons.
People who have stayed single for too long or prefer to stay single can do so for the following few reasons:
1.The partner you chose is not ready to some terms and neither are you ready to compromise on what you want for yourself.
2.A sense of freedom and the need of not being answerable to anyone is something that is worth a treasure.
3.The number of responsibilities when you are single are way lesser than those that are on people who are married or in relationships.
4.When you time and again see the person you're in a relationship with, calculative about every penny you're spending together, without the need to inherently do something for each other. You give up on it.
5.When you have too many other priorities which potential partners cannot understand or adjust too… You'd rather live in peace than squabble over it everyday.
6.When you've been through a heartbreak and someone who told you you were irreplaceable replaces you in a very short span of time, trust and love feel like fiction and lies. And then you want to save yourself from going through the same struggle again and again.
These are the probable reasons why people stay single in life. Less drama, more freedom.
As the times progressed, being single was not destiny or curse but a choice. Not a few people who choose singles because reluctantly tied in a marriage relationship.
The existence of paradigm change in society related single status itself.
Once 20-year-old woman was asked to get married. Now even though 30 years have not been married also safe.
Vera added that there are several reasons why married age, or in psychology termed social clock, is declining. One of them is the influence of the outbreak of feminism movement both in the world and in Indonesia.
Movement of feminism, according to Vera, indirectly causes the age of dependence on the longer the parent. This is due to the increasing number of people at a young age who want to continue to study as high as possible.
In the past, most people would stop studying after earning a bachelor's degree and then working then getting married. Currently not a few people who choose to continue his studies to a higher level than married.
The higher the education then the age of individuals to be able to independently decline.
Excessive coverage of divorce cases is also seen as the cause of people choosing singles. Cases of over-exhibited divorce make marriage no longer seen as a sacred ceremony.
People then think as if divorce is easy. In the last decade, the rate of divorce cases has increased. Even from the latest data he can, from every 10 marriages there is 1 divorce each year. Uniquely, not infrequently women become individuals who trigger the divorce itself.
It seems that women are increasingly independent. Said the psychologist who just opened his private practice.
Explaining people's perceptions of sexual relations also changed in this era of globalization. More and more people are tolerating pre-marital sexual intercourse. As a result, not a few who then assume that sexual intercourse can be done without having to go through the marriage.
I can't represent individuals who would prefer not to be hitched or wind up in a long haul relationship, yet I'd be upbeat to discuss what it resembled to go through a large portion of my time on earth being single regardless of my craving for association. Despite the fact that I've been joyfully hitched for multi year presently, it's as yet sufficiently late to recall what it resembles to dependably appear to be single, frequently automatically. For me it wasn't an issue of allure, relational abilities, affability, or deciding, as much as it was about the basic actuality that it takes two to tango.
I generally tell individuals that you can control basically everything about your life with the exception of that which takes two to tango. In the event that you contemplate, you learn new information and abilities and it will open up new openings. On the off chance that you work, you will procure cash and make important commitments to society. On the off chance that you exercise and take great care of your body, you will wind up more beneficial and it will appear. In the event that you travel, you will bring back intriguing stories from the street. These are altogether ensured. Be that as it may, on the off chance that you put your heart out there for somebody you choose to love, there is no certification that they will love you back and remain with you. That exclusive happens if the other individual chooses to do likewise as you do.
What one could control, however, is the manner by which to form oneself into the sort of potential accomplice they could see themselves dating. Need a gorgeous accomplice? Embrace a sound way of life, prepare yourself well, and refresh your closet with complimenting garments. Need an intriguing accomplice who could hold a shrewd and pleasant discussion? Read up on some intriguing books, join some fascinating clubs, and focus on some fascinating leisure activities. Need a kind accomplice who is liberal with compassion and support? Be that sort of individual to the general population in your life: your family, companions, collaborators and arbitrary outsiders. Need an accomplice who can give you a decent personal satisfaction? Fabricate yourself a well-paying respectable profession that gives you a sensible extra cash, and invest the effort to keep up your home life well. Need a fiscally secure accomplice? Teach your own particular funds first through strict sparing and contributing propensities.
At the end of the day, in spite of the fact that I had no power over who will focus on being my accomplice, I have full control over what sort of an accomplice I could move toward becoming to the correct individual. What's more, as long as I focus on turning into that very much created individual I'm pleased to be, regardless of whether an accomplice is in the photo turns out to be less applicable. In the event that they're not in the photo, in any event I have my own life dealt with, and it's a really damn great life lacking nothing basic. An accomplice would be a decent expansion, however I'm not frantic to discover one since I needn't bother with them to fill a void in my life. Then again, when the accomplice turns up, I would have a great deal to offer to upgrade their personal satisfaction. What's more, I'd probably wind up with somebody who is similarly as focused on their very own advancement and personal satisfaction.
Having this sort of attitude has been useful for getting rid of potential accomplices who simply aren't removed to remain with the sort of individual I'm resolved to be. The general population I've dated have either adored me or loathed me, however paying little heed to how they wound up feeling, they've all regarded me for the duties I've made to myself. When somebody doesn't stay, that is on account of they weren't right for me in any case, and they're doing me the enormous support of emptying a space that is better held for a meriting accomplice who WILL remain. Obviously, it hasn't been anything but difficult to feel this positive each time I part ways with somebody, yet in my mind I've generally realized that this rationale is correct. Realizing that whatever I felt in those days is impermanent contrasted with reality of my rationale has helped me adapt through my scenes of automatic singleness.
Since I have a conferred accomplice to stay, I'm cheerful I never made due with anybody less. It's been a lifetime of deferred delight, however every one of those single years currently feel well spent. It's helped me center around forming into an individual I'm glad to wind up, thus as an accomplice I've possessed the capacity to offer great fraternity, personal satisfaction, and support for any goal he's focused on accomplishing. What's more, in like manner, I get what I really ask for in my marriage to him.
No doubt about it, in spite of the fact that I never again am single, sometime in the past I was that "constantly single young lady." However by the day's end, I've generally been focused on creating and dealing with myself in the first place, so I could offer the best form of myself to others. Also, in that light, regardless I am an indistinguishable individual today from I was the point at which I was single. The main distinction is that today I'm going through my time on earth on somebody who is similarly as focused on himself as he is to me, and is subsequently ready to offer his best self as he strolls this trip with me.