No, having a stalker is an uncomfortable or frightening situation, depending on the severity. Stalking often increases to other forms of criminal violence, so if you seem to be followed, you must take steps to keep your distance from stalkers and protect yourself and your family.
Maybe this is some tips handle from stalkers:
1. Avoid contact with stalkers.
Stalkers often feel that they are in a relationship with the victim, and that all the victim's contacts with them are considered as endorsement of "relationships", which actually do not exist. If you are being followed and want to avoid it, don't call, write messages, or talk to stalkers personally.
2. Avoid unintentional signs or messages.
Sometimes victims of stalking shout or talk to their stalkers, but even the obvious rudeness of you can be misinterpreted by stalkers (who are usually mentally disturbed) as communication of affection or interest.
If you are followed in cyberspace, do not respond to any message in any form, regardless of how angry you are. Just print the message for proof and leave the computer.
3. Hide your personal information. If the stalker does not have your personal information such as telephone number, home address, or email address, don't let him find it.
* Do not tell your phone number aloud to anyone in a public place. If you have to give a telephone number, try using an office telephone, or write the number and then tear it off.
* Avoid writing home addresses. In the case of extreme stalking, you may need to get a PO Box as a correspondence address to minimize the possibility of having to give someone else's home address.
* Do not share your home or work address information on the internet or social media. This will give virtual stalkers the opportunity to find you personally.
4. Get protective orders.
In the case of repeated stalking or stalking with a history of violence, you can get protective orders that legally require the stalker to stay away from you. But realize, this action has the potential to make the stalker angry and push him into acts of violence.
5. Move to an undisclosed location.
In the case of extreme extreme stalking that has the potential to become a crime, you can decide to move to a new place. If this is your decision, consider consulting with organizations such as protecting women victims of violence to ask for advice on how to make yourself disappear completely.
* Don't ask for your letters to be sent directly to a new home.
* Be careful when registering as a voter in a new place. You can request anonymous registration.
* If you buy a house, your name will be in the public record as the land owner. Sometimes these records are tied to data that can be accessed, so you might just need to rent a house to remain anonymous.