What would you do if a person who knows you since you were a child sees you having sex?
That person can be, your mom, your dad, a neighbor of many years, a friend, cousin, etc.
What would you do if a person who knows you since you were a child sees you having sex?
That person can be, your mom, your dad, a neighbor of many years, a friend, cousin, etc.
Life is in stages and growth is part of life. Growth is not passive. It is the result of changes overtime.
You've known me since childhood shows that I'm no longer a child at the moment. So I have my life. What I do with it shouldn't be based singularly on how another person feels.
If I choose to have sex with anybody, I won't live in denial. I'm ready for the consequences.
I know it would be embarrassing both to myself and the person who saw me in the act but life goes on. In fact, the chances of this happening is very slim. What happened to under the sheets. What happened to locking up the door? Except of course you mean rape which I don't think is the case with this question.
People have their lives to live. It really would be nice if grown adults act with discretion and minimal interference. People have a right to their privacy. Don't intrude.
Well i am now an adult and i am not too young
to have sex,so if someone that knows me sees
me having sex well i will feel a bit embarassed
but i will act like nothing happened and move on..
the only time i will feel guilty was if i am too
young to have sex,but since i am a full grown adult
then there is no big deal in me having sex and i will
not feel ashamed for having sex...
I'd be amused with the situation. So what? The shoe could just as well have been on the other foot
Truth is having sex outside marriage has not really been globally accepted. Some cultures frown at it, no religion accepts it and the society views the woman as a lose woman. There is a reason why people have sex behind closed doors and not in the open. This means while having sex, we do not want to be seen by anyone whether it is someone that knows you when you were little or just got to know you or doesn't even know you at all.
Parents, friends and close relatives kinda have an inkling that you are having sex. It's a thought they have but wouldn't want to prove it by seeing you in the act. If one of the above mentioned sees you, it will definitely be an awkward situation both for them and you.
It doesn't matter how much of an adult you are. At that moment you would be filled with shame and you may want to avoid the person totally and hopes he doesn't bring up the topic if you are the type that is not comfortable talking about sex but then how do you say it? "Dad, I'm sorry you caught me having sex?" Perhaps in the foreign country yeah but in Africa, you just don't mention it until he talks about it..
All in all, it will be one moment you would end up regretting and never forgetting