I agree with almost everything that you wrote and my initial reaction would have been to "tell him off"!
I actually discussed his "case" with my family and they too were of the "how dare he" sentiment.
I decided instead to get him to reason and hopefully this time it will help produce an active, happy user.
Perhaps two tactics or two approaches from two different personalities and I can't write that I would find fault with either.
You also do a great job mentoring, encouraging, supporting and helping Steem to succeed!
I had the same reaction too @onceuponatime and @kus-knee. I recently posted about how I gained traction on STEEMIT, from New Year's to New Year's (HOWTO Get Attention on STEEMIT without PISSING PEOPLE OFF! 😱)!
From my comment to him:
That's really cool. So happy for your success!
Wow! Have you seen what happened below? That is quite some "mentoring" I got this morning.